Your husband knows things aren’t harmonious and it’s disingenuous of him to act otherwise. This also makes it harder for either of you to move forward in your relationship. If he believes marriage is forever, he needs to be committed to finding the solutions to make forever work. If he can’t or won’t, then forever needs to look different.

A recent conversation that left me a bit dumbfounded was my husband’s suggestion that I should honor his sister who passed by being forgiving of past things my husband did that he thinks I’m holding against him, because his sister would have wanted that.

Wealthy friend always laments injustice but never acts. Friend urges her to sell her extra home to fund real aid instead of just ranting.